Detachment from the Self-Identity

This beautiful, inspiring and soul touching piece ( link to article below) helps us to see that we are not our minds nor our bodies but that we are as eternal as the essence of the Oneness Cosmic Energy that flows through everything and everyone.

Being able to detach from everyday experiences brings a higher view and understanding of all life. It brings acceptance, allowance and reverence for every moment that flows.

As we become more detached from the everyday sequences, we start to see, feel and hear things differently ~ we broaden our perspective to extend beyond ourselves to the whole collective. And this extension is what brings deep understanding and wisdom expanding our consciousness and reuniting us with the true essence of our being

Detachment with the Self-Identity, gives you Clear Perspective towards Life..


A Woman’s Power Struggle

I have been struggling with something. I have been struggling to keep the balance of being a loving,compassionate woman YET also being a self-dependent, values keeping, equality-based feminist, powerful, self-realized black woman. And I’m sure many other women go through this same struggle.

For me, trying to balance the give and take of power, whilst staying true to myself has been a journey upon which I am still travelling. Constantly learning and growing as my consciousness expands.

I was prompted to ‘up’ my strong, powerful action to affirm that I am a strong, powerful and self-realized woman after reading this inspirational and soul-invoking article, For Women: The False Seduction Of Giving Up Power.
The author, Danielle M. states that:

” Women are often told to let a “man be a man.” Sure, if that allows room for me to be a woman. Room for us to both be self-actualized humans and not one of us to be an object or chattel property.

Women can’t be scared of their power. They can’t let the message that intelligent and independent women are punished prevent them for exercising these gifts. Because while it is true that anti-patriarchal women are sanctioned in any patriarchal society the costs are always way higher for mindlessly following along. “

Taking action to continue to grow and expand my power would be easy if I lived in a society that is focused on equality and appreciation for the true feminine. Unfortunately, that is not the world we live in. We live in a man-dominated, patriarchal world where the woman is barely heard unless she steps out, stands out and raises her fist to the sky screaming ‘NO MORE’, to which she is greeted by bewildered stares of the patriarchal seduced women and intimidated egos of men.

Why must it be this way?

Why can’t I be free to say and do what it is that I feel, and wear what I want – all without those bewildered stares and chauvinistic smirks. Actually, there is nothing stopping me – I just risk being called a bitch, a hard ass, an old hag, and ‘one of those women who can’t have/keep a man’. Is this the fate of the strong, beautiful and powerful woman? I beg to differ.

I have always felt more comfortable around the boys, for one reason or another. But as I grew up and even now, being that most of my co-workers are male, I realize that there is a constant compromise that I unendingly endure. The compromise of being myself and ‘being nice’, that is, sparing the male ego. But why should I? And they rarely think twice about sparing mine..

They say what they want, when they want… so why shouldn’t I. So, I do. I stopped ‘being nice’ and start being truthful. Not just to them, but to myself. I do what I want, when I want, and most times say what I want – I’m growing in confidence in that last one :). The difference between me and them is that I do my best to speak and act from a place of love and compassion, whilst allowing that strong, beautiful and powerful woman to shine.

You know, it’s easier to sit, smile and stay silent but it’s not worth it. Not worth the constant trodding upon your true essence by others, not worth that feeling of dis-empowerment when you don’t say what you mean and bite back the words. So let’s step into our true essence by speaking up, being true to ourselves, saying ‘no’ and ‘that’s enough’. We can take a stand, not because we are against men but because we are for ourselves, and we want our daughters to be able to express themselves freely whenever they want, however they choose to do it. So if you don’t want to do it for yourself, do it for our future generations.


Caribbean Woman of the Caribbean Sea

Mystery, Beauty, Strength, & Versatility

Fluid like the sea
Her essence is ever pervasive

Filled of mystic auras
She is the light you see
nearing the end of the funnel/tunnel

Trust her and you might live
Love her and your heart is forever hers
Hurt her and you are forever doomed to misery

Warm like the sea, she flows
softening heart, mind, body and soul

Calming effects
Her magical healing
Remedy for all ailing

Swift and powerful
She is also soft and beautiful
But don’t you ever cross her line

Caribbean Woman
Mystery, Beauty, Strength, & Versatility


The Power Hungry Man

The power of abuse is astronomical,
especially the unseen and unfelt forms.

The way he can easily persuade
How seductive and malicious

A power hungry man
He is most dangerous

The power he can not get enough of
The abuse she is barely aware of
Gives way to a one way street
All lights flashing, yet still she’s driving

Til the sun starts to set
The darkness reveals itself

How did it come to this?

Flew right past all the warning signs
All the pleas of truth

It had to come to this
Lesson learned
To herself she must stay true

Leaving behind
The power hungry man



awaken-defaultI always felt addicted to the dark…

Simply because I didn’t fit in anywhere else. I had always felt outkasted, different and a bit crazy.. after all I did ( and still do) believe in magic and that’s rarely accepted by society and its followers. I also believed ( and still believe) that we are all worthy even though I felt so unworthy within myself because I couldn’t find a way to fit in to societal realms.

For a long time I felt that I HAD to fit in to be worthy, to be good, to be close to trueness. I did so many things to be seen, to fit in, to be on top..but nothing has set me free like being true to the essence within me.

Nothing has set me free like being true to the essence within me

In April 2012, I received the wake call that changed my life forever. I became unable to stray from my internal truth, and as revelation after revelation came to me – I found myself constantly on my knees, in constant meditation and in constant search for something greater because everything I thought I was, everything I thought I wanted…no longer mattered and no longer resonated with me.

The truth I had once known was null and void, and a greater and more all-encompassing, loving truth was unfolding with every moment of breath.

The truth I had once known was null and void

It took some time to accept my differences after trying so long to be in the social limelight, it took some time for me to be ‘real’ with myself, and it took some time to accept myself for all the light and dark contrasts that I am. It took time to know that all that I am is perfectly ordained and right – I am unique spark of divine

Through it all I have learned that to be myself I must stay true even if it doesn’t align with another’s truth; for we are all the light – from the core we shine, we are all the truth. We are all here to live our individual truths and reconnect to the universal/cosmic truth – the place of oneness and trueness where all that we are, no matter how unconventional and crude, is a part of the eternal, living and ever-expanding truth.

So no matter where you have been, what you have done – the God within you is never gone. Only patiently waiting for you to bang on the door of eternal love, and once we walk through that door we enter the truth that we are one, we are god, we are what we seek, we are the beginning and the ending. The creator and the created.

~ From whence we came, we shall return

The Power of Melanin

We-are-as-strong-as-the lover and warrior within

The melanin flowing through my veins has always been up for discussion, since before my birth. And even now the argument is not quite clear.

Because of the melanin flowing through my veins I am supposed to believe that I’m not as good as my fellow beings of light without the melanin impregnit.

WE are all essentially made of earth ~ consistency existing of carbon, hydrogen and nitrogen and oxygen. This is also found in our atmosphere ~ which makes up this beautiful planet that we call Earth, which is the natural by-product of stars in action, which is evidence enough that we are entities of the universes. Children of beautiful manifest, that is what magnificence we are.
So when there are a few that have taken it upon themselves to say that they are better than others, that is due to a lack of self empowerment and seeking outside of one’s self for approval.

With self empowerment, one realizes that the potential within one exists within all. So people that act, think and look different from you and yours are not of lesser or greater being, they are just simply a part of God’s divine manifest expressing their truest self in the moment -just as are you. Think with love, Be love and dare yourself not to judge – but just be accepting of each and every soul.

The mayans, aborginals, the aztecs, and the nepals were all people of dark complexion due to the essence of melanin in their makeup.

From what I know about the universe, she is constantly growing and expanding and everything happens for a reason. So I know that the melanin in this skin of mine and in millions of other dark skinned peoples is right. And it has a special purpose on this land and I will not accept any talk of removing or bleaching/diluting our birthright.

While some continue to distract people with foolishness of differences, the real truth for unification is kept secret.

But all in the dark must come to light ~ as we all ascend and grow conscious of our true essence; we will see the veil drop, twisted lies exposed and truth will rise

A universal unification of power, love and grace ~ The Power of Melanin

The 12 Lost Tribes Of Judah

A New Race/Consciousness Born Out Of The Darkness

We will fight with all our might, opening the gates of oppression as we rise

We are as strong as the lover and the warrior within us

~ Namaste my fellow melanin lovers and love & light warriors